The ‘After’ Checklist: your post-wedding to do list

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The ‘After’ Checklist: your post-wedding to do list

Are you the type to catch a red eye to your honeymoon destination the evening of your wedding? Probably the morning after you’ll  wake up in your own bed or in a hotel room close to where your reception was held. Although you may feel like you’re incapable of doing anything productive due to intense feelings of happiness, you might want to reconsider that late breakfast in favor of some admin stuff. Snooze fest, right? Wrong! Smart choice. There are lots you can deal with when you return. Theo Meijer, the professional photographer in Curacao has these five points for your checkinglist that will make you enjoy your honeymoon like a pro!

  1. Bills, bills, bills

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Bills might be the last thing on your mind when you wake up the day after your wedding. Taking care of any payables (think vendors, hired car to the airport for honeymoon, tickets, but also your monthlies such as rent) before your honeymoon will prevent stress down the line. Although most parts of the world have decent internet connection,  you don’t want to deal with angry vendors or your landlord. If possible, ask someone in your bridal party to take care of any vendors that need to be paid right after the wedding or soon after. If that’s not possible, take advantage of modern technology and schedule a wire transfer prior to the wedding. You can also spend your ‘morning after’ taking care of the bills. And make sure you have a separate wallet stashed with the essentials, your passport and enough cash for your honeymoon.

  1. Check travel dates and documents

Unless you are a frequent traveler and have your go-bag always by the door, you might want to take the time to check your travel documents, dates and times. Wedding bliss has the tendency to make us forget that the world goes on even when we’re tying the knot, so check when you are expected to board the plane (or cruise or train or horse and carriage) and make sure you’ve got all the travel documents, visas and cash you need to get there. Don’t worry too much about your suitcases: anything you might have forgotten to pack, you can probably purchase at your destination.

  1. Thank your bridal party

Your bridal party consisted of your closest friends and relatives. They will probably forgive you if you jet off to your honeymoon without as much as a text. However, it wouldn’t be too much trouble for you to send a thank you message to those who have slaved away for months to make sure your big day was indeed special. It can be a quick text message, email or phone call. Bonus point: you can update them on your itinerary so at least people know where you’ll be in cases of emergency. Relatives that have traveled far to come to your wedding would probably also appreciate it if you could find the time to have a quick coffee or lunch before you embark on your honeymoon. Other thank you notes can be send when you return from your trip.

  1. Preserve the essentials 

You probably spent a fortune on the wedding gown and suit. The next thing to do is to gather that heap of fine clothing first thing in the morning and drop it off at a reliable cleaner that is specialized in wedding gowns and suits. If you’re going on a longish honeymoon, arrange for someone to pick up the clothes in your absence. Other items you may want to preserve are your cake (slice and freeze in Ziploc bags. Double bag them if you are storing them for a longer period) and the wedding bouquet. Consult with your florist how best to dry the bouquet and proceed with the recommended steps.

  1. Pictures, please!

If possible, ask your professional photographer ahead of time to deliver at least a few pictures of the wedding the day after, so you can share them with your close friends and relatives. Use these pictures to send along with your thank you messages or, if you’re a social media addict, share them online and thank everyone for coming. Keep in mind though that the professional photographer takes upwards of a couple of thousand shots (depending of course on the size of the engagement) and he or she might need a few days to sort through them.

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